How We Can Know Christianity is True?

How We Can Know Christianity is True?

That’s the question, isn’t it. Nobody wants to live or believe a lie, yet most people refuse to consider the radically exclusive claims of Jesus Christ who claimed to be the way the truth and the life, and that nobody could come to the Father except through him. Then his followers continued to preach those exclusive claims. If they are true, then most people live or believe a lie. If he is the truth, then every other religious, or secular, claim that doesn’t include the truth is a lie.

Despite the exclusive nature of his claims, ironically, every religion wants a piece of Jesus, but only a piece. They reject the Jesus of the exclusive claims, the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world. Having just a piece of Jesus never made sense to me. It’s a basic either/or proposition, and I knew that even as a teenager. Either Jesus is who he and his followers said he was, or it’s all a lie and I’ll throw the Bible in the trash, thank you very much. And if it’s all a lie, based on the claims it makes, it’s a horrible, terrible, nasty lie, and Jesus a devil. C.S. Lewis, as usual, said it best in Mere Christianity:

A man who was merely a man and said the sort of things Jesus said would not be a great moral teacher. He would either be a lunatic—on a level with the man who says he is a poached egg—or else he would be the Devil of Hell. You must make your choice. Either this man was, and is, the Son of God; or else a madman or something worse. You can shut Him up for a fool, you can spit at Him and kill Him as a demon, or you can fall at His feet and call Him Lord and God. But let us not come away with any patronizing nonsense about His being a great human teacher. He has not left that open to us. He did not intend to.

Yet the Bible’s critics for the last couple hundred years tell us what a great guy Jesus is. No, if it’s not true, he would be a monster

Even as an ignorant 18-year old I knew it was an either/or choice. I would only embrace Christianity for one reason: I believed it was true. If it wasn’t, I wanted nothing to do with it. As I was presented with the gospel and the claims of Christ, I contemplated whether to run away from God or fully embrace the Christian message. All during those months I had one thought always at the forefront of my mind. If this thing is real, if God actually exists, then he deserves my all. There are no halfway measures here. As I was reading my Bible, going to church, and listening to Christian radio, especially John MacArthur, I eventually came to the conclusion that it is real, the ultimate truth about reality, and I was all in. I didn’t have had any substantive apologetics reasons for believing this, I just did. That would come with my introduction to apologetics, the defense of the Christian faith, through Francis Schaeffer.

Sometime in my sophomore or junior year I happened upon his book, The God Who is There, and it was a revelation to me. He introduced me not only to a Christian worldview, how to view everything in life through Christian lenses, but to apologetics proper, and that there were substantive, logical, rational reasons to believe Christianity is true. The Christianity I was involved with then was a type of fundamentalism, and it wasn’t concerned with evidence for the veracity of Christianity. They believe it was true, but didn’t seem to see the need to prove it. I learned a lot about apologetics in the next several years and in seminary as well, but as life went on it wasn’t a focus, although I have always been of a mind to defend the faith. Then in 2009 I dove back in, and was amazed at the explosion of apologetics resources that had developed since the 80s. There are an incredible number of reasons for us to believe Christianity is true.

The Factual Foundation of Our Faith
I was reminded of all this as I was reading I John 1 recently, and why I so I appreciate the Bible and the Christian faith’s declaration that it is true. It is also the exact opposite of what the skeptic, the atheist, agnostic, and apathetic claim it is, made up stories of so much wishful thinking. On the contrary, it is historical, fact based, eye-witness, event oriented with an undeniable verisimilitude, accepting its veracity or not. Here’s how the Apostle John, one of the first three followers of Jesus, starts his first epistle:

That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked at and our hands have touched—this we proclaim concerning the Word of life. 2 The life appeared; we have seen it and testify to it, and we proclaim to you the eternal life, which was with the Father and has appeared to us. 3 We proclaim to you what we have seen and heard, so that you also may have fellowship with us. And our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ. . . . 5 This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all.

We are immediately confronted with the either/or choice. John is declaring that they have seen, heard, even touched this man, Jesus the Jewish Messiah, God’s Son, which got him killed because the Jews rightly understood Jesus was making a claim to divinity. In their book that was blasphemy, but in reality it is the truth. John is either lying, or just making up that Jesus is “the Word of life.” Who makes such claims? There is no in between here; either it’s true or it’s not.

Another of the first followers of Jesus tells us the the same factual, historical nature of the claims (2 Peter 1):

16 For we did not follow cleverly devised stories when we told you about the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ in power, but we were eyewitnesses of his majesty. 17 He received honor and glory from God the Father when the voice came to him from the Majestic Glory, saying, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased.” 18 We ourselves heard this voice that came from heaven when we were with him on the sacred mountain.

The Greek for stories is fables, myths, tales. Peter is referring to the transfiguration in the Synoptic gospels where Jesus takes Peter, James, and John up on a mountain and he is transfigured before them. His glory as a divine being was revealed, and Moses and Elijah appeared talking with Jesus, representing the law and the prophets. Again, the choice. Either Peter is lying, or this really happened. He was willing to endure a terrible death at the hand of the Romans because it really did happened, and it was not made up. Nobody lies for what they know to be a lie.

Then all we need to do is read the gospels and we’ll see exactly what John and Peter are talking about; stories about real people in real life doing real things. Luke introducing his gospels confirms what Christianity is proclaiming:

Many have undertaken to draw up an account of the things that have been fulfilled among us, 2 just as they were handed down to us by those who from the first were eyewitnesses and servants of the word. 3 With this in mind, since I myself have carefully investigated everything from the beginning, I too decided to write an orderly account for you, most excellent Theophilus,  4 so that you may know the certainty of the things you have been taught.

Without any anti-supernatural bias, the stories read real. I used the word verisimilitude above, something having the appearance of being real and true. The gospels have it in spades; they don’t read like myths or fairy tales, at all. C.S. Lewis was an academic steeped in medieval 1literature, and he had this to say about the gospels: “I have been reading poems, romances, vision‑literature, legends, myths all my life. I know what they are like. I know that not one of them is like this.” The Apostles were always concerned with asserting the factual nature of the message, that it was all the truth, and that we can rely on it, and trust in it.

Evidence and the Christian Faith: Consideration of the Alternative
There’s no space to get into the plethora of historical, archaeological, textual, philosophical, and other evidence; it’s massive and all easily available in books and online. For me, though, whenever I doubt whether this whole Christian thing can be true, I look outside. I see what we call nature, and thank God for his revelation in creation. Then I turn and look at my Bible, and thank God for his revelation in Scripture, which is even more amazing to me than in creation. And then finally thank him for what is therein revealed to us, his revelation in Christ. That is a revelatory trifecta making it impossible for me to believe it’s not true. The evidence for God’s existence in each is overwhelming and to me undeniable.

The way my mind grapples with this as I wrestle with doubts, and I’ll admit it’s not much of a contest, is what I’ve come to call the consideration of the alternative. If something isn’t true, some alternative must be, and from basic logic we know two contradictory things can’t be true at the same time in the same way. There is no true for you but not for me in the real world.  Only one view of reality, one religion, one set of ultimate answers to the Big Questions is true—who are we, why are we here, what does it all mean, why is their suffering, evil, and death, and what is our destiny? If I’m going to believe in something, commit my life to something, it needs to give realistic, plausible answers to these questions that make sense of the reality I inhabit and experience every day. Here’s a brief look at the trifecta of revelation from my perspective.

First creation. In order for me to believe Christianity is not true, I would have to believe some alternative explanation for the material world is true. I would have to believe, be required to believe, the universe and everything in it is a cosmic accident, a product of chance, and everything came from nothing for no reason at all. That would be a blind leap of faith entirely too far. If it’s not all a product of chance, I am compelled to believe the God revealed to us in the Bible is what it says he is, the all-powerful, almighty Creator God who in the beginning made the heavens and the earth by the power of his word, “And God said let there be . . . . “ I look at the preposterous complexity, fine tuning, astonishing engineering, and breathtaking creativity of creation and I know God is, doubt vanquished.

Then looking at my Bible, to me it’s as amazing as creation, even if not as obvious at first blush. We’ve been told for over 300 years that the Bible is a product of human beings. People, not God, are the authors, and since we read of supernatural works of God in it, we are compelled to believe what is not verifiable straight forward history, is a product of human imagination, so much fiction. I don’t buy it. In my study of apologetics, I came across the idea that stories in the Bible could not have been made up, inventions of people. The more I read the Bible, the more I realized how true that is, and the result was my book, Uninvented: How the Bible Could Not be Made Up, and the Evidence that Proves It. Now I realize the burden of proof is on those to believe and insist that it is made up. As I write in the book and am convinced, that is impossible.

Because the Bible is God’s inspired verbal communication to his creatures, theologically we get the phrase, verbal plenary inspiration, or that every word is literally breathed out by God (2 Tim. 3:16). That means the Bible takes epistemic priority. The foundation for whatever we know or can know must first come from the Bible. There is knowledge to be had in God’s general revelation or creation (i.e., nature and other human beings), but we must submit that knowledge to what God has revealed in Scripture. In there we learn of the apex of his revelation, the Lord Jesus Christ. It is only in him that all other revelation, and all of reality makes any sense. C.S. Lewis, as usual, said it best:

I believe in Christianity as I believe that the sun has risen: not only because I see it, but because by it I see everything else.

In apologetics terms this is called explanatory power. No other view of reality can so compellingly explain all of reality. With this revelatory trifecta, it becomes literally impossible for me to not believe Christianity is The Truth.

Transformation as Christian Apologetic
What ties up all the evidence and revelation in a beautiful compelling big red bow is the personal and societal transformation always coming in the wake of the influence of Christianity. Where Jesus shows up, transformation takes place. This only happens if Christianity is The Truth. Mere psychology and ideas do not have this power to transform the crooked human heart in such a way as would make a butterfly jealous.

I started to develop this conviction a number of years ago when I started coming across Christians sharing their testimonies of personal transformation online. By this point I’ve listened to hundreds of them, and the verse that always comes to mind is Matthew 1:21 when Jesus is given his name by the angel to Joseph in a dream. He tells him, “She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.” Jesus is the Greek form of Joshua, which means the Lord saves. His death on the cross, the payment for the guilt and penalty of our sins, accomplished our transformation before we were ever born! Jesus didn’t come to try to save us, but actually saved us. In Ezekiel the transformation is metaphorically compared to turning stone to flesh (Ez. 36)

26 I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. 27 And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws.

The contrast could not be any greater, dead, cold, inert stone, to an alive, beating, heart of flesh. This is confirmed in Jeremiah 31 when we’re told about the New Covenant when he will forgive our wickedness and remember our sins no more. He says in this process (v. 33):

“I will put my law in their minds
and write it on their hearts.
I will be their God,
and they will be my people.

I see this miracle of transformation in every story, each one as unique as their fingerprint. God is infinitely creative in how he saves his people from their sins. Again, to me this is impossible to explain away as mere ideas. Something real is happening, and it is the work of God in the souls of his people. This then explains the power of Christianity to shape civilizations as it has done in the last 2,000 years, turning the ancient pagan world into the modern world of innumerable blessing because of the gospel being embraced throughout the world.

Does God Want All People to be Saved?

Does God Want All People to be Saved?

This post is not going to make me popular with, oh I don’t know, maybe 90% of Christians. We Calvinists are in the minority among the faithful, but we are a confident and determined lot. I’m grateful, however, that God will not require a theology test to get into heaven, which brings up the most important thing in this discussion. We are not saved because of the rightness of our beliefs, but because we put our trust in Christ, that we look to him alone for our salvation. And on that day, whenever it is, we won’t be obsessing about theological niceties, but looking in hope to our Savior, all of us, every Christian from every tradition of every theological permutation. As Jesus assured us in John 3:

14 Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the wilderness, so the Son of Man must be lifted up, 15 that everyone who believes may have eternal life in him.”

Look up and trust in him is all that’s required.

Now hopefully that I have some of that 90% open to what I’ll say, let’s discuss whether God does in fact want all people to be saved. I don’t think about this much, but as I was reading through I Timothy 2, Paul got me thinking about it again

3 This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior, 4 who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. 5 For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, 6 who gave himself as a ransom for all, which is the testimony given at the proper time.

Reading this passage, I’m reminded that Paul doesn’t always mean each and every one when he uses the word all. The non-Calvinists insists he does. See, they say, God obviously wants all people, each person who has ever existed, to be saved, therefore all, every person, should have the possibility of being saved. Clearly not all are saved. No orthodox Christian believes in universalism, that everyone will in the end be saved.

The reason all meaning each and every person never made sense to me once I learned about Reformed theology, is that if a ransom takes place there must be an exchange or it cannot be considered a ransom. One thing must be given for another. If it is, an exchange will have taken place, Christ’s righteousness for the sinner’s sin. If Christ ransomed all people, each and every one, died for them, then all people, each and every one, must be saved, and universalism is true. But it isn’t true because we know some people will end up in hell. So, Paul either means Christ made salvation possible for all people, which makes the word ransom meaningless, or he must mean all people Christ ransomed will be saved.

And lest you think I’m just hanging everything on one verse, to the concept of ransom in the idea of Jesus purchasing people by his blood, there are a number of verses referencing the concept of exchange. The first verse that comes to my mind when I’m thinking about this is Revelation 5:9:

And they sang a new song, saying: “You are worthy to take the scroll and to open its seals, because you were slain, and with your blood you purchased for God persons from every tribe and language and people and nation.

You go to the store, pick up a bottle of wine, go to the clerk and hand her some money. You get the wine, the store gets the money, and a purchase and exchange has taken place. Another verse that comes to mind is Mark 10:45:

For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.

The word ransom is used again by the writer to the Hebrews in chapter 9:

15 For this reason Christ is the mediator of a new covenant, that those who are called may receive the promised eternal inheritance—now that he has died as a ransom to set them free from the sins committed under the first covenant.

Notice how he specifically connects those who are called as the ones who are ransomed. The same concept is used by Paul in a different context in I Corinthians 6 and 7. In chapter 6 he’s discussing sexual immorality and the body, then says:

19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.

In chapter 7 he is discussing slavery and how we are ultimately Christ’s slave, then he says:

23 You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of human beings.

Add I’ll add one more when Paul is bidding farewell to the Ephesian elders who he’ll never see again as he’s on his way to Rome (Acts 20):

28 Keep watch over yourselves and all the flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers. Be shepherds of the church of God, which he bought with his own blood.

All of these verses supporting the idea of Christ’s death actually saving people, not just making their salvation possible, are confirmed when Jesus is given his name by an angel before he is born. Speaking to Joseph in a dream he says (Matthew 1):

21 She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”

And there is a footnote in some of our Bibles saying, “Jesus is the Greek form of Joshua, which means the Lord saves.” Jesus came to specifically to save his people, not make salvation possible for all people. It wasn’t the people’s choice that makes them his, but God’s choice. We have this confirmed in John 6 when Jesus says:

37 All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never cast out.

Our Alienation from God
This is a hard pill for many Christians to swallow, but biblically it’s undeniable. In order to believe the Arminian position, that God makes salvation possible for all and only those who decide to trust Jesus are saved, all these verses, and many more, have to be explained away. I’ll never forget the night I heard this Calvinist or Reformed perspective the first time and thinking, this is upside down from how I’ve believed in Christianity for over five years. Then I went home and at the suggestion of my mentor to be read Ephesians 2, a chapter I’m sure I’d read many times before. All I could think was, how had I missed this? Here are the first 10 verses:

As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, 2 in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. 3 All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath. 4 But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, 5 made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. 6 And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, 7 in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. 8 For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— 9 not by works, so that no one can boast. 10 For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

I noticed that all of the initiative is God’s. I didn’t believe because I decided to believe, I believed because God raised me spiritually from the dead. We can go to a cemetery, the old fashioned kind with headstones and grave markers, and preach the gospel with the eloquence of Whitfield, Moody, and Billy Graham combined, and not one of those people are capable of responding in faith—they’re dead! For Paul’s dead isn’t like Westley in The Prince’s Bride, mostly dead; it’s all dead, spiritually. In Colossians 2 Paul says the same thing:

13 When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made you alive with Christ.

I didn’t believe when the message was preached because I decided it was a good idea, I believed because God in Christ had already raised me spiritually from the dead. Regeneration preceded belief. By God’s sovereign power because I was one of his people from before the creation of the world, my spiritual eyes were supernaturally opened, and I believed. And it’s even worse than being dead in our sin. In our unsaved spiritual state we are enemies of God. Paul says in Romans 5:

10 For if, while we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life!

He confirms our natural state of spiritual rebellion in Colossians 2:

21 Once you were alienated from God and were enemies in your minds because of your evil behavior. 22 But now he has reconciled you by Christ’s physical body through death to present you holy in his sight, without blemish and free from accusation.

The Greek words Paul uses for enemies leave no doubt that choosing Christ in that state of heart and mind would have been impossible. For the Greek of enemies, Strong’s says:

properly, an enemy; someone openly hostile (at enmity), animated by deep-seated hatred. 2190/exthros (“enemy”), implies irreconcilable hostility, proceeding out of a “personal” hatred bent on inflicting harm.

In a state of sin we have a deep-seated hatred of God and a personal hatred bent on inflicting harm. It’s not just that me and God we’re/ not getting along—we’re at war! There is an alienation between lost sinners and God that no amount of good news, the gospel, can overcome, unless we are by the power of God born again, and nobody chooses to be born.

God’s Initiative and the History of Redemption
We’ll notice in the history of redemption, of God saving his people from their sins, he is the one always taking the initiative. Nobody seeks God. Quite the contrary, they’re all running away until he does something remarkable to turn them back. From the very beginning that’s what rebellious sinners did. When Adam and Even disobeyed God, what did they do? They hid; they were afraid. God was now their judge, jury, and executioner because the penalty for eating from the tree was death. No wonder they were afraid.

What did God do? Took the initiative. Not only did he come looking for them, he killed an animal, the first sacrifice in human history, to clothe their nakedness and shame. Then he announced the gospel, or as the theologians call it, the protoevangelium (Gen. 3):

15 And I will put enmity
between you and the woman,
and between your offspring and hers;
he will strike your head,
and you will strike his heel.”

The offspring or seed of the woman as we know is Christ. The plan of salvation, what we call the covenant of redemption, what already set in place prior to God even having created the world. Then after driving them out of the garden God judged the world but picked Noah and his family to make a covenant with man, that he would never again destroy the human race because of their sin.

Then it really begins, God building for himself a people he will save from their sins. Out of all the human beings on earth he picked one man, Abram, and announced that through him all nations on earth would be blessed. Then his descendants become enslaved in Egypt for 400 years, and God again takes the initiative when he picks Moses by first saving his life by allowing him to be born, then saving him again when he’s an adult. He helps the Hebrews escape slavery in Egypt, and gives them his law and a sacrificial system to enable him to forgive their sins. He guides them for 40 years through their rebellion eventually into a land he promised them, and thus begins the history of Israel.

Eventually he chooses a king, David, who will become a type of the Messiah to ultimately save his people from their sins, sending prophets for hundreds of years to predict that, and to warn the people in their rebellion. Then he sends a last prophet, John the Baptist, to prepare the way. He himself comes through a woman’s birth canal as an infant, conceived in a virgin, s what we know as the incarnation, God becoming man. He is given the name Jesus by the angel, and allows himself to be tortured and killed for the his people whom he came to save, redemption accomplished. Then rose from the dead, ascended to heaven at the right hand of God, and sent his Holy Spirit to his people to save them, redemption applied. He is doing that to this very day and will continue until he has placed all his enemies under his feet, the final enemy to be defeated is death (I Cor. 15:25).

God taking the initiative and orchestrating the entire history of redemption doesn’t mean he destroys the nature of his creatures. Our agency is never compromised in the process of salvation. We are still choosing and accountable beings who must respond, and whose choices have real consequences. How all this works, God’s sovereignty and human freedom, we have no idea. I just know it’s the clear testimony of Scripture that both are true and real. God wants all his people to be saved, and he will save them.

Protector, Provider, and Priest: The Foundations of Patriarchy

Protector, Provider, and Priest: The Foundations of Patriarchy

I believe in Patriarchy, and around our house I’m the boss. I mean, no one else in the house can even touch the clicker for I am The Master of the Clicker, and nothing says patriarchy more than that! Of course it’s pretty much just me and my wife now, so that’s easy. But even when it was the wife and three kids, nobody challenged me. I’m being facetious, kind of. The clicker is a metaphor for patriarchy, for the husband and the dad being the head of the household. Back in the day I would head to Blockbuster (remember those) and get a movie for the family. If it was terrible, the family would ridicule me, but if it was great, it was just a great movie. I made the call, so I could take the heat. Another metaphor for patriarchy is driving the car. Since our very first date until today, my wife has only driven the car a few times when I’m in it, and that on very long overnight trips when I was dog tired and she had to drive. For me, that’s another metaphor for Patriarchy, for being the protector of my family. I remember many times driving with the family in the car thinking, their lives are in my hands; I’m responsible to keep them safe.

Much of this comes down to personality types. It’s obvious when you meet people how different they can be. One person is outgoing, the life of the party and won’t shut up. Another is taciturn and reluctant to speak, while another is always moving and looking to get something done. Another will talk about the details of something until you fall asleep standing up. Our awareness of these types goes back to the ancient Greeks who wanted to know why this was, and they believed they had the answer which shaped their understanding of medicine, philosophy and psychology. This concept, known as the four humours, was developed by Hippocrates (460-370 BC), and then over time the four temperaments by Galen (129-216 AD). As I describe them, think about yourself and those you know and you’ll see how accurately they apply.

  • Choleric (yellow bile) – Type A, hard charging, goal oriented, seeks accomplishment.
  • Melancholic (black bile) – Thoughtful, inward, detail oriented, engineer or artistic type.
  • Phlegmatic (phlegm) – Calm, laidback, nothing seems to bother them.
  • Sanguine (blood) – Outgoing, life of the party, loves to talk.

Everyone is some combination, but one normally dominates.

My wife and I first learned about these in the early 90s through a book by Florence Littauer called, Personality Plus.  It was a life changer. I used to think people were the way they were just to annoy me, and I am easily annoyed, but it was a revelation to learn they were just born that way. Go figure. And at 90 percent choleric, being annoyed is part of the deal for me. Initially I thought this was a way to put people in a box, but I realized it helped me to related to people who are not like me. And yes, those who are like me annoy me as well.

What has all this to do with patriarchy? It so happens a lot. The Biblical ideal for male leadership in the home comes easier to some than others, which includes not just the husband and wife, but the children as well. If you look at the personality types, it’s easy to see how leadership would come easier to men with a Choleric personality, while the choleric wife would have a more difficult time following or being submissive. Being primarily choleric, God in his providence gave me a wife who is sanguine and phlegmatic, so the patriarchy works easier in such a relationship, even if it is never easy. Over the decades in almost every relationship I’ve come across, the husband and wife have totally different personalities and each has its own unique challenges. Those who marry someone with a similar type have challenges as well. You can imagine what those might be with two strong willed choleric types, or where the wife is the choleric and the husband a phlegmatic. Leadership does not come naturally to the phlegmatic any more than submission does to the choleric.

The issue is awareness of how our personalities influence how we interact with others, and for our purposes in the family. The most important awareness is our sin. In our very first session with our premarital counselor, who happened to be Tim Keller because we met at Westminster Seminary in Philadelphia, said something we never forgot because we’re reminded of it every day: “The only sinner bigger than the one you’re marrying is you.” The only way any relationship works, and most especially a marriage, is if the cross is at its center. Love, the I Corinthians 13 type of love, is only possible by daily taking up our cross and following Jesus. We are Christians and that defines everything about us because as Jesus said, the entire Bible, the entirety of God’s revelation to man, comes down to love, loving God and our neighbors as ourselves.

The Bible Model of Marriage and Family
Because of the rise of feminism in the 19th century, and its coming to complete dominance in the 20th, the Christian ideal of husband and wife has been diluted beyond recognition. I imagine secular people, and even some Christians, reading the title of the post and being triggered by the words protector and provider. You mean, I can hear them thinking, a woman can’t protect and provide for herself? How insulting! Actually, a woman can do both of those things, but that’s not the ideal, not what they were created to be or do. The created order of things, the telos of purpose of creation, is what the secular have a problem with, the way things should and ought to be, is not what they want them to be.

You can see this play out in the Old Testament starting with the creation of man, male and female God created them. They were a team, but man came first and woman from man. God said it was not good for man to be alone, so he created a “suitable helper” for him. The word suitable in Hebrew is interesting. In context it means a part opposite, as in these two things fit. We can see this profoundly in the biology of man and woman, and in the sexual act how perfectly they fit. But the partnership is not one of equals. I can hear the blood boiling of those who have a feminist or egalitarian bent as they read that sentence. What do you mean men and women are not equal? What I do not mean is equality in the matter of ontology. Men and women made in God’s image gives them an equality in their being, in their value. Remember when God made man, male and female he created them.

What makes male and female different is what makes them unequal in authority, strength, stature, and responsibility. Women are not equal in these specific ways. This is why the man is the primary provider, protector, and priest of the home. It doesn’t mean the wife doesn’t contribute to these, only that she isn’t to take the leadership. I once heard someone say related to the home, anything with two heads is a freak. Sometimes disobedience in the home comes from the husband, sometimes the wife, sometimes both.

For example, you may be in a marriage where the husband is a solid, naturally born leader, and he longs to be the the Protector, Provider, and Priest, but the wife rebels against his direction. This could be because she’s been infected by feminism and sees it as demeaning, or maybe he’s just not very good at it. Or you may have a marriage where the husband is not stepping up as a Provider and Priest, and the wife is longing for him to be that for their family. That can create a lot of tension and conflict. There are a variety of ways this works out, and an infinite number of issues that can contribute to the challenges, but it’s much easier in psychology to find the cure than diagnose the reason for the problem.

So, let’s look at the Scriptural norm for husband and wife relationships. Patriarchy is assumed throughout the Old Testament as the natural state of affairs, both in the family and the state. Men lead and take responsibility. In the New Testament we get specific teaching so there is no doubt that Patriarchy is the biblical model of marriage and family. Here are four passages directly dealing with marriage and family. I can’t do a deep exegesis of these in a blog post, or even quote them fully, but they will make the point.

Ephesians 5
In this passage Paul uses the “S word,” which became a bad word in the age of feminism; it isn’t. It’s a biblical word.

22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

That’s as all-encompassing as it gets, but that’s only half of the story. He calls husbands to the ultimate sacrifice for their wives:

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.

Both husband and wife live unto the Lord, but in a clearly defined relationship toward each other. The husband must never be abusive, but he must also not be passive. Not assuming the leadership role is as problematic as abusing it. Even as the husband loves the wife as Christ would, she must respect him as she would Christ. The marriage relationship must be in every sense, Christ-centered.

I Timothy 3
In this passage Paul is giving instructions to the men who would be overseers of bishops. He must be faithful to his wife and able to manage his children and household well. You can see each of the three P’s laid out here, and if done well this man is worthy to lead in the church as well.

Titus 1
Paul gives similar instructions here to the men who would lead the church as he did to Timothy. They must lead their family’s well, and that includes children who are well behaved.

I Peter 3
Pater also uses the “S word,” but the rub here is that the husband is not a Christian. The submission of the wife is not qualified by the faith of the husband. Yet he calls husbands to be considerate with their wives “as the weaker partner,” but both as heirs “of the gracious gift of life.” He says something in this passage about women having an inner beauty, then says something that will likely offend most modern women:

5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord.

For modern people the “O word” is probably more offensive than the S word,” but there it is.

I Timothy 5:8
Speaking of the husband’s role as provider, Paul adds later in Timothy:

But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

The husband’s role as provider is huge for the psychological and emotional well-being of the family. I’ll briefly address the three P’s to finish the post.

Living out The Foundations of Patriarchy
The well-being of the home is almost entirely dependent on the man. It’s the burden of leadership in a God ordained reality. Every organization derives its health and prosperity from its leader, including the family. Outside of the family, men almost always make the best leaders, even while there are rare exceptions. Those are not welcome words in an age of feminism, but they are the truth—Patriarchy is the nature of things. Let’s look at that in the family.

Protector – Biology tells us in a dangerous and uncertain world men must protect their families. That is primarily their responsibility, but of course the family will pitch in when necessary. Imagine Little House on the Prairie, 1970s version. It’s clear Michael Landon is the man and responsible for keeping his family safe.

Provider – This is probably the most contentious of the roles in an age of feminism. Girls are taught from a young age and indoctrinated into a career mindset as they get older. Few parents teach their daughters that aspiring to be a wife and mother should be their greatest aspiration. A career is fine as long as it never takes priority over her role as a mother. This, of course, has very much to do with the man’s stepping up to make sure his wife has that option because the family is not dependent on her income. The most difficult scenario is when the wife makes more money than the husband, and the husband is ok with that. He should not be. Depending on his wife’s income is a dereliction of his duty as a husband, and women have a hard time respecting such men.

Priest – The spiritual leader of the home is the husband and father. If he’s not a Christian, the wife has to take that role, but if he is, there is no excuse for him not taking the lead. What this means in practice will vary by household and the husband’s and father’s gifts, but faith is as much caught as taught. I was not a great spiritual leader when it came to family devotions and reading and praying with the kids, but I was always passionate about teaching them that Christianity is true. That was a constant theme of my comments, lectures, and teaching. Missing church was never an option, but we didn’t expect the church to raise our kids spiritually.

However any of this works out in any family, everything works better, more smoothly, when there is no doubt who the leader of the family is. If the husband abdicates his role, for whatever reason, dysfunction and suffering will follow. Don’t let that happen in your marriage or family, and you will be blessed.

Conservatism, the Protestant Dilemma, and the Theocratic Element

Conservatism, the Protestant Dilemma, and the Theocratic Element

This post was inspired by what was for me an eye opening piece at American Reformer by Timon Cline titled, “Can Protestants be Conservative?”  I’ll explain what he means and lay out some of his arguments below, but this piece is really about setting up why Cline’s question is a perfect way to phrase the question and the dilemma it raises for we who espouse the Protestant faith. When I first saw the question it made no sense to me, but now it does, and hopefully before I’m done it will to you too. I encourage you to read his piece as well. He takes many of his arguments from a book published in 1962 by Clinton Rositer called, “Conservatism in America: The Thankless Persuasion.” I haven’t read it yet, but it will be interesting to devel into Rositer’s perspective on the development of modern conservatism and it’s rebirth after the World War II. Liberalism’s dominance after Roosevelt and the War was absolute, and conservatism thought something of a joke and not taken seriously by America’s cultural and political elites.

In order to make sense of Cline’s question, and set up the answer to it, we’ll first take a look at my journey through conservatism.

I’ve been a conservative since shortly after I “pulled the lever” for Jimmy Carter in my first presidential election in 1980. There’s a story behind that lamentable choice. As my name indicates, I’m Italian and grew up in a thoroughly Americanized Italian home and family. The two sides of my family couldn’t have been any different. My dad’s side was crazy, like every stereotypical over-the-top Italian family we’ve seen in movies or on TV: loud, boisterous, argumentative, especially when the alcohol flowed. By contrast, my mother’s side was as calm as a summer pond on a still day. My dad was born in Brooklyn early in the Depression, and his outlook on life in large part determined by it. Given Italian immigrants we’re almost all Democrats, they were a proud Roosevelt Democrat family. Italian also meant Catholic, and although my dad didn’t start out a faithful church goer, as I grew up he wouldn’t miss a Sunday Mass.

All this lead to my dad’s identity being rooted in three words I’d often hear him say: He was an Italian, Catholic, Democrat, and he would never change! And he didn’t. I went away to college in the fall of 1978 pretty much apolitical. I guess I was a registered Democrat, but didn’t think much about it. Of those three words my dad used, one was about to change. I became a born-again Christian not long after I arrived at Arizona State University, something that would not make my dad a happy camper. I couldn’t do much about the Italian part, but by the time of the 1980 election I would not be long for the Democrat word either. Given my ignorance I had no conviction one way or the other, but since I guess I was a Democrat, I should vote for the Democrat, and why Carter got my vote. He would be the last one. The morning after Reagan won I was in the student union watching Reagan’s news conference, and the more he talked, the more I realized I was probably a conservative Republican, and that’s how it all started. I didn’t know at that time I would have decades ahead of experiencing conservative futility and frustration, but I was all in.

My political journey really started when I came across Francis Schaeffer’s, The God Who Is There, sometime in 1980. Realizing my Christian faith applied to all of life, including politics, was a game changer for me. The campus organization I came to faith through was typical of a Pietistic kind of fundamentalism focused on “spiritual” things like Bible reading, evangelism, Scripture memory, lots of Scripture memory, and fellowship with other Christians. All that really counted was my relationship with Jesus, and the worldly stuff while maybe important, wasn’t a priority. Schaeffer began to change that, along with his once Christian and conservative son Franky. It’s through the latter that I learned about National Review Magazine and the Wall Street Journal editorial page. These became my teachers about the conservative movement, along with reading books that taught me what conservatism is. It all sounded great to me, but as time passed I noticed nothing seemed to change. The liberals continued their march through the culture, and we only seemed to conserve their gains, albeit maybe a little more slowly.

The Culture Wars and Conservative Futility
I’ll never forget watching Pat Buchanan at the 1992 Republican convention in Houston, and hearing the words “culture war” I think for the first time. For your average politically engage conservative, Buchanan was mostly an embarrassment. Bill Buckley, one of my conservative heroes, more or less accused him of being an anti-Semite. He had run for president against George Bush, but couldn’t gain any traction. The Bush campaign gave him a prime time slot to make his case for Bush, and his own vision for America. It’s one that looked increasingly prescient as the years wore on. It’s known as “The Culture War Speech,” which is a war mainstream Republicans wanted nothing to do with. What Buchanan understood, and Republicans didn’t, was that conservatives didn’t start the war. And what was most profound about his insight was that it wasn’t about culture per se, but about religion, about what Americans believed fundamentally about the nature of reality. A little more than halfway through the speech he lays out the case:

Yes, we disagreed with President Bush, but we stand with him for the freedom to choose religious schools, and we stand with him against the amoral idea that gay and lesbian couples should have the same standing in law as married men and women.

We stand with President Bush for right-to-life, and for voluntary prayer in the public schools, and we stand against putting our wives and daughter and sisters into combat units of the United States Army. And we stand with President Bush in favor of the right of small towns and communities to control the raw sewage of pornography that so terribly pollutes our popular culture.

We stand with President Bush in favor of federal judges who interpret the law as written, and against would-be Supreme Court justices like Mario Cuomo who think they have a mandate to rewrite the Constitution.

My friends, this election is about more than who gets what. It is about who we are. It is about what we believe, and what we stand for as Americans. There is a religious war going on in this country. It is a cultural war, as critical to the kind of nation we shall be as was the Cold War itself, for this war is for the soul of America.

That last paragraph was a planting-a-flag moment in American history, and a moment of clarity against the entire American political and cultural establishment, and they despised Buchanan for it. Around Reagan’s reelection in 1984 I got involved in Republican politics in California. I experienced even then how mainstream Republicans, who called themselves “moderates” looked down on we “social conservatives.” The 80s was the era of the Moral Majority, which inspired those pesky conservative Christians to become politically engaged, and the cultural elites from both sides of the political spectrum were none too happy about it.

The problem I didn’t quite see at the time, and what Cline exposes, is that the modern conservative movement is thoroughly secular. This doesn’t mean there were not deeply religious people involved, but that they bought into the myth of neutrality, that America’s liberty was based on a pluralism where Christianity had no more right to influence government policy than any other religion. Basically, and Cline points this out, modern conservativism was classical liberalism, an Enlightenment project that saw religion as a primarily personal issue, and religion in the public square as fundamentally divisive. America’s founders negotiated that tension, but given late 18th century America was thoroughly Protestant, and Calvinism dominant, Christianity informed everything about how the Republic was founded and governed.

I was not well versed on the history of conservativism or the conservative movement, having seen it as primarily a post-World War II phenomenon, but I learned from Cline it started well before that. Therefore, I assumed conservatives and conservatism was mostly on the side of we social conservatives because it sure sounded like they were. But as the 90s gave way to the 2000s and George W. Bush’s administration, I started to experience some cognitive dissonance. The 2006 midterm elections where Republicans got shellacked was like a gut punch. No matter what we do nothing changes, and the liberals and their progressive project marches on. Maybe conservatism slowed it down a little, but it almost seemed like conservatives and liberals were on the same page. I didn’t think that at the time, but suspicion was brewing up in me like a kettle on the boil. I concluded the reason we don’t get anywhere is that we ignore culture and think the answer is politics. So I went all in on the culture, but politics is important because as a wise older man once told me, it’s the distribution of power in a society.

After Obama was elected, the first Marxist president, the pessimism set in. I realized I probably wasn’t a conservative given their futility, but what was I? I thought about libertarianism, but that was a secular dead end. Maybe I was a classical liberal after all. I was hanging around some guys who embraced that moniker, but I realized it was too secular for me too, so now what? Trump! He reoriented everything for me, the very last person on earth I thought could do such a thing. At the time I had subscribed to National Review magazine, and had done so since the early 80s, and in February ’16 I got the infamous anti-Trump issue of the magazine in the mail. On the cover were big bold gold letters that stated, “AGAINST TRUMP,” and below the names of the contributors, a who’s who of the conservative movement. Some of since repented, but most of them got TDS so bad they could never recover. It was that day as I was trying to read some of it that I knew the conservative movement had been conning me all along, which is why I now call it, Con inc.

Conservatism’s Theocratic Element: Against Protestants
I finally came to understand that the fundamental problem with conservatism was that it bought into the secular myth of neutrality, that America, or any nation for that matter, could be governed without any overt political reference to God, and specifically the Christian God. Cline explains how this process of de-Protestantizing conservatism developed in the late 19th century with industrialization and waves of immigration, much of it Catholic. The changes coming after the Civil War were monumental as America was developing into an industrial world power. The religiously conservative rurally agrarian society prior was becoming an industrial city based country. As conservatism became less overtly Protestant, it became more classically liberal, or what Rossiter called “laissez-faire conservatism,” and thus more individualistic, libertarian, and secular. This was when conservatism lost its “theocratic element,” meaning there was no longer, according to Cline, “any positive moral, religious vision for society.”

The new conservatism would be more ecumenical, part of a “Judeo-Christian” tradition, less Protestant as it was in America’s first century. By the time of the development of the modern conservative movement, it became primarily a Catholic and Jewish driven movement. It wasn’t until the above mentioned Moral Majority that conservative Protestants declared their relevance again, but they were not exactly welcomed. Today we see this dynamic play out in movement conservativism’s aversion to anything smacking of “Christian nationalism.”

If you read the founding fathers you will find they were all, even the most supposedly Deistic among them, completely comfortable with the primacy of Protestant Christianity as the worldview and moral driver of the republic. When Adams said the following he was speaking about Protestant Christianity:

Because We have no Government armed with Power capable of contending with human Passions unbridled by morality and Religion. Avarice, Ambition, Revenge or Gallantry, would break the strongest Cords of our Constitution as a Whale goes through a Net. Our Constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other.

This was axiomatic for the first hundred years of the Republic, but secularism slowly took over, and conservatism went right with it.

What was most revelatory for me was the transformation among conservatives of the role of government. I always assumed per Reagan’s quip, that the government that governs least governs best. Since liberty was now defined primarily in economic terms, minimalist government became the default conservative position. Cline explains it well:

The purpose of government was always stated in purely individualistic terms. This was the minimalist, nightwatchmen theory of the state. Government was merely the umpire there to call foul if the rules of the game were violated. The state was decided not an active instrument of leadership, and was certainly not charged with social happiness. The goal was to reduce government’s relevancy and size to such a degree that, as Grover Norquist would say, it could be drowned in a bathtub.

One of the things Donald Trump exposed, ironically enough, is the secular-Protestant divide in modern conservatism. Traditional (as we’d see them now) laissez-faire conservatives despise Trump. A robust executive who exerts moral leadership over the nation is not at all welcomed. This is why conservatism developed, as Rossiter termed it, “an intense cult of the Constitution” rising to the level of “a second holy writ.” Reading those words was shocking to me because I assumed that cult was the normal state of affairs. Cline counters:

Whereas the actual framers had been ambivalent about the Constitution as a pragmatic mode of governance, the new conservatives sacralized it. Now the parchment was “great and sacred,” and inviolate, immutable even. “In short, the Constitution was a closed book by which Americans must live henceforth and forever,” and this closed book was a “catalogue of limitations rather than a grant of powers.” In need of an interpretive key and inspirational hermeneutic, the Declaration of Independence was rediscovered as the philosopher’s stone.

This gave us a new clergy, men, and now women, in black robes, judges became the new high priests. As Cline aptly puts it, “The move was not to suggest a moral, directing power to government, but rather the divinity of absolute restrictions against such activity.”

What I discovered reading Cline’s piece is that the reason modern conservatism is a loser political philosophy is because while it lost “the theocratic element,” the left never did. They understand what conservatives forgot a long time ago: there is no morally neutral place from which to govern a society. The left is driven by a moral force that will not be stopped, while the secular right is powerless to stop them. That is, until Donald J. Trump showed us what conservatism could and should be. It’s crazy for me to write that sentence, let alone think that thought, but God used Trump to reveal what I’d been wondering about for a very long time, why Con Inc. proved to be a con. Once I discovered this I realized modern conservatism was just liberalism in a skirt, and Cline confirmed that.

Protestants are finally debating the “theocratic element” and breaking out of the secular trap. Nobody knows where this is going to go because it is a complicated subject and everyone has an opinion, but at least we’ve started a journey that had to be made. Conservative Protestantism needs to be back at the center of the conservative movement and American public life. It’s our American heritage and we need to fight for it.

Epistemology and the Fall: The Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil

Epistemology and the Fall: The Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil

Knowledge is better than ignorance, knowing than not knowing, as you can appreciate when you see the pilot enter the cockpit on a flight you’re about to take. Or when you see the surgeon and medical professionals wheel a loved one into an operating room. Or let’s say you’re lost in a place you’ve never been without a map, nowadays without your phone able to display Waze or Google Maps because there is no cell service. You’re nervous because it’s dark and you’re alone and low on gas. What you would give for the knowledge that comes with cell service or a map now. Yet sometimes ignorance is better than knowledge, as when bad guys want to do harm but don’t know how to use a weapon. Or a child not knowing how difficult their life is going to be. Then we might use a saying we’re all familiar with—ignorance is bliss.

Yet at the very beginning of our faith, it’s genesis we might say, is a prohibition by God not to eat from a tree he called “the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.” It’s fascinating that what is philosophically called epistemology, the study of knowing, has been central to our religion from the very beginning. That this tree is right next to another tree, one God called “the tree of life,” is also something to ponder. And as we learn in Genesis 2, these two trees were in the middle of the garden, not out on the periphery or in some random location. Whatever is in the middle or center of something is of the most importance, and in some way life and knowledge are connected. We don’t know in verse 9 when we’re told this what the relationship between these two might be, if there is any at all, but I suspect there must be given their proximity. We know specifically that knowledge at least has an inverse relation to life in that it can cause death. We’re told after “The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it,” he gives the man this warning:

“You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; 17 but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die.”

It may be the act of disobedience to God is what causes the death, or the knowledge itself. Most seem to think it was a kind of test, that the prohibition was a probation, a trial to see if man could be trusted with such knowledge. He could not, as we know.

Again, we’re not told, and over the millennia there has been much speculation as to what this might mean. It could be both knowledge and disobedience, in that disobedience to God is what made man’s awareness of evil a reality and thus caused death. It seems man was created not to have knowledge of evil because everything God created was very good. There was no evil in the world prior to the fall, but evil existed in the universe, in the non-material world because Satan had already fallen. We’re getting into mysteries beyond the ability of the finite human imaginations to comprehend.

It is clear from the rest of Scripture, however, and common sense, that knowledge itself is not the issue given we are exhorted continually to grow in our knowledge because knowledge is a good thing. For example, the Lord says through Hosea that “my people are destroyed from lack of knowledge” (Hos. 4:6). And we see from Proverbs that wisdom is knowledge rightly applied. It very much depends on what kind of knowledge we’re talking about, knowledge of what and how it is used. So if we go back to the garden we might conclude that man already had and could grow in his knowledge of the good, like the God’s creation in order to rule over the earth, to fill and subdue it. They couldn’t do that without knowledge. That means we’re left with the conjunction “and,” or the connection between knowledge and evil. It is knowledge about evil that was the issue, knowing what evil is. Another way to put that is, man would now have the knowledge of taking God’s good creation and perverting it, turning good into evil.

You Will Be Like God: Knowledge and the Fall
We’re not told, but we can speculate if man had passed the test, he could then be trusted with such knowledge, and have access to the tree of life forever. This understanding seems to fit because the tree of life is at the beginning and end of the Bible. There are four references to it in the book of Revelation, three of those in the last chapter. The first reference is in chapter 2:

To the one who is victorious, I will give the right to eat from the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.

Adam and Eve lost that right to paradise because they chose to disobey God. Satan knew if he could get man on his side in his rebellion, he would have a better chance to take down God who he saw as the usurper, the one who had taken his rightful throne as ruler of the universe. Talk about hubris. He was the one created by God, not God by him. So the first thing he does is question God’s command, “Did God really say?” When Eve answers the question, then Satan calls God a liar by contradicting him, “You will not certainly die.” Then he attacks his character, “For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” The implication is that God is petty and jealous and doesn’t want man to have what he has.

This threefold attack is at the center of every sinful human being; question God, accuse him of lying, then attack his character. Man’s motivation at the center of his being now became the same as Satan’s; he wants to take back his rightful throne, to be the one calling the shots, to determine what is good and evil, to be like God. So, knowledge itself is not the issue, but who gets to be God.

22 And the Lord God said, “The man has now become like one of us, knowing good and evil. He must not be allowed to reach out his hand and take also from the tree of life and eat, and live forever.” 23 So the Lord God banished him from the Garden of Eden to work the ground from which he had been taken. 24 After he drove the man out, he placed on the east side of the Garden of Eden cherubim and a flaming sword flashing back and forth to guard the way to the tree of life.

An important question when thinking about these things is the nature of evil, what it is. This was Augustine’s dilemma, who writes about his struggle trying to figure out what evil is in his Confessions. Early in his life he was taken in by the Manicheans who believed good and evil were two distinct and equal forces in the world doing battle against one another vying for our loyalty, light verses darkness. Over time he realized that made no sense because he could never find something evil that was not first good perverted. In other words, the Bible’s account made more sense, that God created everything good, including knowledge, and man’s rebellion caused him to take the good thing God created and pervert it, use it for evil ends.

So what happened in the fall is that man now had the knowledge to misuse God’s good creation towards his selfish ends. Instead of allowing God to dictate the meaning of things and their use, man would do whatever he wanted. He would now live in the subjective world of his own meaning creation, rather than living in and discovering the objective meaning of God’s creation. This orientation is a definition of sin Augustine gave us, and Luther emphasized as well, “incurvatus in se,” in Latin, or being curved in on ourselves. For me it is the perfect definition, a self-orientation, instead of a God and others orientation, and ourselves in that context. Knowledge now became something we possess to build our own kingdoms, to be our own sovereigns, sitting on the throne of our lives for our glory. What could go wrong!

We see immediately how the horrible effects of this orientation began to manifest themselves. Adam and Eve didn’t die right away like God seemed to threaten; physical death would be later and be inevitable. But it was a kind of spiritual death. The first bit of knowledge they have is that they are naked. It hadn’t occurred to them before that was even an issue, but now it causes fear, specifically of God. So the first thing they do is sew fig leaves together and make themselves loincloths, which is a poignant expression of the futility of man’s efforts to escape the judgment of God. From that moment on, all history is one long story of human beings furiously sewing fig leaves to try to cover themselves from God’s wrath and judgment, and earn his favor; it doesn’t work. The world’s religions express this futility in a myriad of ways, but they can’t heal the chasm between sinful human beings and a holy God.

Then instead of communing with God when he comes “walking in the garden in the cool of the day,” they hide “themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden.” All religion is basically man hiding from God because he is our judge, jury, and executioner. No wonder we hide. Then in the very next chapter Cain kills Able, and it starts.

Thankfully, God had a plan and we’re given what’s called the protoevangelium, or the first declaration of the gospel in history. God promises the seed or offspring of the woman, Christ, will bruise or crush the serpent’s head, and redemptive history starts God’s millennia long process of reconciling himself to man, to save the world, and knowledge would be integral to that project—we’re given a book filled with it. But the serpent wouldn’t stop his deceits in the garden.

Knowledge and the Creation of the Modern Secular World
It’s no surprise we’re told that “the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the Lord God had made.” His deceits would manifest themselves in a variety of ways, and in the modern world he would use epistemology to bring down Christendom and turn it into a secular paradise more resembling a dystopia. I’m semi-obsessed with the history of ideas, and in the development of the modern West, knowledge and knowing is a central feature. It goes back to the ancient Greek sources that inspired Western intellectuals, but the ancients were primarily looking to discover the world as it was, while moderns were looking to remake the world; big difference.

As I’ve written about many times, it all started with a pious Catholic French philosopher, René Descartes (1596-1650). He was concerned about the growing skepticism developing in Europe, and decided to address it. He started by doubting everything that could be doubted, and came to the conclusion the only thing he couldn’t doubt was his own existence because of his own thinking. So he came up with a phrase so powerful it transformed the medieval world of Christendom into the modern world of secularism: I think therefore I am, or in Latin, cogito ergo sum. Speaking of orientations, the entire Western world began to shift form a God centered outward orientation, to a self-centered inward one. Talk about big differences—it was Satanically brilliant! This was the beginning of modern philosophy, and the so-called Enlightenment, an ironically named movement if ever there was one. With the development of rationalism, for the first time the world was given an epistemology based on human reason alone. The way we come to know is solely through our minds and thinking, our reason, which to Western cultural elites in due course made revelation unnecessary. Man would now get to determine good and evil on his own, no God required.

It didn’t take long for the the Satanic threefold attack to begin. It started with the questioning of God and his word. It wasn’t long before Baruch Spinoza (1632–1677), a the Jewish Portuguese Philosopher, decided Moses was not in fact the author of the Pentateuch. At the time this was highly controversial, and he was excommunicated from his Jewish community in Amsterdam for his troubles, but it wouldn’t be controversial for long. In the 18th century skepticism about the Bible increased, and philosophers started accusing God of lying, did he really say? French philosopher Voltaire (1694-1778) was the first to go public, so to speak, of directly attacking God’s character. After the terrible Lisbon earthquake in 1755 in which over 50,000 people lost their lives, he wrote a poem basically outlining the problem of evil, something no one would have thought to do before the Enlightenment. The late 18th century saw the rise of Deism and a God having nothing to do with the Bible. Then with the 19th we have a great flowering of open rebellion against God.

Once naturalism, nature is all there is, was accepted as axiomatic, unquestionable dogma, the Satanic floodgates opened. This all happened among intellectuals and cultural elites, and then slowly flowed down into the rest of Western culture. German philosophers like Kant and Hegel developed systems of thought that made the God of the Bible superfluous, although they weren’t themselves atheists. This gave rise to Marx and Darwin, and German biblical criticism, which treated the Bible as just another human fiction, more or less. This then fed something called liberal Christianity which was rationalism cloaked in religious garb, and secularism, society without God, became the worldview of Western culture. It took some time in the 20th century for the full flowering of a God-less view of reality to fully take over the culture, but by the infamous 60s the victory of Satan was complete. Now man had total moral autonomy, and over a hundred million people were killed in the process, but that was a small price to pay for man finally becoming “like God.” We’re now living in the rubble of epistemology without God.

But a funny thing happened on the way to John Lennon’s Imagine paradise. All the people were not living in peace. There was no brotherhood of man or the world living as one. Without God life was exactly what we would expect—a hellhole. And an increasing number of people want nothing to do with it. Being God isn’t as easy as it looks, and an increasing number of people want the life only God in Christ can provide, reconciliation to their Creator, and the blessings that comes along with it.

The Difference Between Being a Parent and a Grandparent

The Difference Between Being a Parent and a Grandparent

I’ve thought about this a lot since we became grandparents over four years ago. As our kids were growing up and entering adulthood, I encountered people who had become grandparents tell us what’s great about being a grandparent is that you can enjoy your grandkids and then send them home. That seemed kind of hard-hearted when I heard it, or they didn’t really appreciate what they had, but I understand what they were saying now.

Raising children is a young person’s game and it’s a lot of work, especially when they’re young. Our daughter and son-in-law have three kids four and under, and it’s a challenge to say the least. My wife experiences it daily during the week as she sits the kids with our daughter who works from home. Praise God they live five minutes away and she can do that, but it’s a grind for a grandparent, even more exhausting than for the parents. It’s an incredible blessing and she loves it, but when she comes home at the end of the day the benefit of being a grandparent is obvious.

I was inspired to write this when I saw a post on Twitter/X where a guy whose children are just entering adulthood asks:

Don’t we all miss our babies? Does this feeling come back when you become a grandparent?

It depends on what feeling he’s talking about, but yes, we most certainly do miss them, which I’ll muse on below, but for us being grandparents is a completely different feeling.

I remember vividly how I felt when our daughter finally decided to make her entrance into the world after a grueling labor for my wife. I loved her instantly; it was total and complete. I had previously told my sister that I liked children and all, and looked forward to having them, but nothing prepares you for the love and emotion welling up inside you when it’s your child. My first thought through the flowing tears was, “There is a God!” It was by far the most profound thing I’d ever experienced in my 31 years of life. God is the only explanation for new life. As a Christian, knowing these feelings are in some way analogous to how God the Father feels about us, his people in Christ,  is incredibly comforting given how terribly imperfect we all are. Do we love and feel any less emotionally connected to our children because they are rotten little scoundrels sometimes? Well, I guess that depends when you ask the question, but having children teaches us unconditional love, and that is what God the Father poured out on us his children in Jesus on the cross.

But back to this-worldly realities. After a couple of days at the hospital, we were almost shocked they were letting us take her home. I thought, nobody’s coming with us? Somehow, she survived, obviously. I remember spending time just looking at her asleep in her crib and marveling. It was the most incredible thing I’d ever seen! I’d get emotional with the marvel of it all, of God giving us this little creature, of letting us co-create with him a new life on earth and for eternity. Just entirely too heavy.

Thinking about this reminds me of this passage from a book by Whitaker Chambers. He became famous in mid‑20th century Cold War America because of his association with convicted Soviet spy and American government official, Alger Hiss. In his magisterial autobiography Witness, Chambers tells the story of his life, including his conversion from atheistic communism to Christianity. The profound turning point in his journey came from something you’ll never guess: His daughter’s ear. Every parent knows how exactly he felt, even if it doesn’t lead them to Christ, which it should.

My daughter was in her highchair. I was watching her eat. She was the most miraculous thing that had ever happened in my life. I liked to watch her even when she smeared porridge on her face or dropped it meditatively on the floor. My eye came to rest on the delicate convolutions of her ear—those intricate, perfect ears. The thought passed through my mind: “No, those ears were not created by any chance coming together of atoms in nature (the Communist view). They could have been created only by immense design.” The thought was involuntary and unwanted. I crowded it out of my mind. But I never wholly forgot it or the occasion. I had to crowd it out of my mind. If I had completed it, I should have had to say: Design presupposes God. I did not then know that, at that moment, the finger of God was first laid upon my forehead.

Unless you’re a parent you have no idea what these feelings for your little children are like. It’s the purest emotional love imaginable. I see it in my daughter now as she beams when she’s with them, holding them, or even talking about them. It’s so incredibly special to see this experienced in the next generation, to relate to exactly how she’s feeling, and also, sadly, how fleeting it is.

The Depressing Passage of Time
This is another huge and inevitable difference between being a parent and a grandparent. When you’re in the middle of raising children, you have no clue how fast it goes. You catch glimpses of it, of course, but nothing prepares you for the thief that is time. It steals our lives from us once second at a time and we don’t even realize it until we find it impossible to believe. Where did it go? How did I get here so quickly? The birth of a child, as any grandparent can tell you, seems like a hundred years ago and yesterday at the same time! It’s crazy, and only those getting closer to the end than the beginning can fathom its mystery, an unsolvable one. As Augustine said, everyone knows what time is, but when asked to describe it, we’re rendered mute.

The mystery of time and its passage is an obsession with me, as anyone who knows me will tell you. After our first grandchild was conceived, I turned to my wife and said, “In the year 2,100 she’ll be 78!” and she replied, reasonably, “Can you just let her be born first?” Good point. Well, that little one is now well on her way to 2,100, and she only has 74 years to go! Be here before ya know it! Now she’s as cute as a button, an impossibly cuteness cute. It just rips your heart out. The is where parents and grandparents are on the same page. Your grandkids are clearly the most adorable on the playground; isn’t it obvious! But her already being four is a reminder of how swiftly time is moving along. Now a little girl, before you know it she’ll be a teenager, and then a grown woman. It makes our daughter sad, a common feeling among parents, maybe more for mothers than fathers.

We have neighbors who have two boys who walk to and from the bus stop every day during the school year; I’ve been watching them for six years. One morning I was outside with our grandkids while my wife stopped by the house with them on the way to the park. The youngest of the two boys and his mother were passing on the way to the bus stop, and I said to the mom, “Wow, he’s becoming a little man!” and she replied, “I know! And it makes me so sad.” Welcome to the club! You want to capture time in a bottle like Jim Croce sang, to hold on to these moments forever, but they slip away as if like a child on the playground taunting you.

I’m reminded of this every day. A couple years ago we got this thing called a Frame, which is basically a slideshow within a picture frame. As we’re walking around the house, in and out of the backyard, closing and opening the nearest window, we see on the rolling display a kind of kaleidoscope of our lives, years or decades passing as one picture slides into the next. When I see our kids as children or teenagers, the family on memorable trips, more than once I’ve turned to my wife and said, “That’s depressing.” She agrees. Even though old people, like I am now, try to warn us when we’re young how quickly it goes, to appreciate it now because before you know it . . . . , we have no idea until it happens.

Solomon in Ecclesiastes says that God has put eternity into the heart of man, which is why we get sad when we begin to realize just how fleeting life is. We want to somehow capture forever these moments in bottle, and we know we can’t: the wages of sin . . . . In that sadness we perceive something of the reality of eternal life which in this “body of death,” as Paul calls it, we can’t have. But thanks be to God! As he also says, we will have it, and one day will be, as John tells us, where there is “no more death or mourning or crying or pain” for the old order of things will have passed away, praise God! Right now, this longing for eternity, as C.S. Lewis said about all human longing and desires, implies there is something existing that will fulfill it. That sure hope is what allows us not to be consumed by our sadness, and enjoy those fleeting moments God has so graciously granted us.