Uninvented: The Messy Life of David, God’s Chosen King, Continued
In my last post I looked at how it makes little sense to sinful “religious” people God that would chose such a flawed man as David and declare him, “A man after his own heart.” David’s adulterous encounter with Bathsheba and having her husband killed was only the beginning of the dysfunction in his life. Because of what he’d done, through Nathan the prophet, the Lord declared:
10 Now, therefore, the sword will never depart from your house, because you despised me and took the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your own.
David repented, and the Lord took away his sin, but the child born of adultery died. Bathsheba conceived again, and gave birth to Solomon, who would become David’s heir to the throne. After Solomon’s peaceful reign, Nathan’s prophecy would eventually lead to civil war and destruction, and Israel’s exile by the Assyrians (the ten northern tribes, Israel), and the Babylonians (the two southern tribes, Judah).
The sword Nathan referred to started with David’s own son, Absalom. Because David had a number of wives and concubines, as was the custom for rulers at the time, he had children from different women, not always a recipe for harmony. In 2 Samuel 13 we read a sordid story many wouldn’t expect to find in the Bible. The stories in our Bibles, however, are of real people, fallen sinners who more often than not do what fallen sinners do. In this case, David’s son, Ammon had some serious lust for his stepsister, Tamar:
2 Amnon was frustrated to the point of making himself sick over his sister Tamar because she was a virgin, but it seemed impossible to do anything to her.
Eventually he creates a situation where he’s alone with her, and pressures her into having sex with him, but as is the case with lust after forbidden things, it doesn’t turn out well. After he had raped her, we read:
15 After this, Amnon hated Tamar with such intensity that the hatred he hated her with was greater than the love he had loved her with. “Get out of here!” he said.
I imagine Freud would have a field day with this, but what makes it even worse than rape in the ancient context is that Tamar was now seen as used goods. No other man would want her, so her life is basically ruined. We read that “Tamar lived in her brother Absalom’s house, a desolate woman.”
We also read something revealing about the weakness of David’s character: “When King David heard all this, he was furious.” But guess what he did about it? Absolutely nothing, like it never happened, except of course to ruin Tamar’s life. There were consequences for rape according to the law of Moses, but David ignores that to his shame. And as a king of Israel, he knew God’s law well, so ignorance is no excuse. Even worse, the job of the king is to dispense justice, yet because this crime was committed by his son, he did nothing. It actually makes me angry just thinking about it as I write. Imagine how Absalom felt.
David’s inexplainable neglect starts a series of events that bring chaos and misery to his life and kingdom. Two years pass, and we can imagine living with his sister, an abandoned woman, Absalom’s anger smoldering all that time. His father, the king, acts like it never happened, so Absalom figured he would take justice into his own hands. However, according to the law, rape is not a capital crime deserving death, but Absalom is not concerned with justice, but revenge. So, he has other brothers, sons of David, kill Amnon, and the bloodshed and misery in David’s life are just beginning, per God’s promise.
I want to reiterate the uninvented implication of this story. This morally pathetic David was declared by God, “a man after his own heart.” He sure doesn’t seem to act like it! That, as I argued in my last post, is the case if we assume the “religious” perspective on things typical to sinful human beings, i.e., moralism. However, God came in Christ to save sinners, and boy oh boy, was David a sinner. What differentiated him from Saul the failed king was that he knew it! He was quick to repent when confronted with his sin. He knew he could never achieve acceptance before a holy God apart from God’s mercy and grace. His utter dependence on God was what made him a man after God’s own heart, which is why David and his story could not be human invention, merely compelling fiction. As I say repeatedly, fiction didn’t exist in the ancient world.
Things go downhill from here. Because Absalom killed his brother, he had to flee to safety in another town, where he stayed for three years. Then we read these strange words from 2 Samuel 13:
37 Absalom fled and went to Talmai son of Ammihud, the king of Geshur. But King David mourned many days for his son.
Mind you, David isn’t mourning for his murdered son, Amnon, but for Absalom the murderer! Could David be any more morally obtuse! The next verse says David longed to go to Absalom because “he was consoled concerning Amnon’s death.” What about justice!
It only gets worse for David from here because there was no justice, and Absalom will never forgive his father. So, he conspires against his father by offering the Israelites the justice his father is failing to give them. David who previously had to run for his life from Jealous King Saul, now has to run for his life from his own son. After much blood in war is shed, Absalom is killed, and David’s response again shows his character and judgment as less than stellar. Even though Absalom’s rebellion caused so much suffering and death, and humiliated the king, here is how David responds:
33 The king was shaken. He went up to the room over the gateway and wept. As he went, he said: “O my son Absalom! My son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you—O Absalom, my son, my son!”
Really, David? This son David weeps for is a treasonous rapist, yet David is blind to that. As his commander rebukes him, remember this is the man of whom the Lord said, “he is a man after my own heart.”
5 Then Joab went into the house to the king and said, “Today you have humiliated all your men, who have just saved your life and the lives of your sons and daughters and the lives of your wives and concubines. 6 You love those who hate you and hate those who love you. You have made it clear today that the commanders and their men mean nothing to you. I see that you would be pleased if Absalom were alive today and all of us were dead.
It’s hard to imagine through the whole sordid story of David’s life he could be made to look any worse! Thus we conclude once again, you just can’t make this stuff up!
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